Perhaps the biggest relationship paradox relates to how emotions can cloud our perception. You meet someone who appears to always look out for you. You feel safe around them. But how do you know if that’s a sign of protectiveness or possessiveness?
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Maybe you’ve heard of the five love languages before. Perhaps you even have a basic idea of what they are, and you understand how your own love language makes you feel. If you’re in a relationship, though, that’s really only half of the equation.
Managing Expectations in Your Marriage In a digital pop culture society, complete with deepfakes and artificial intelligence, expectations can become a little skewed. We’ve already lived for a long time with fairy tales and romantic comedies. These days, things have kicked up a few dozen notches to create a minefield […]
Being in a loving, committed relationship is a joyful, exciting experience! It can feel as though the weight of the world is easier to carry with someone by your side.
Insecurity can affect nearly every area of your life. It can hinder a successful career, prevent you from saying what you want in social settings, and directly impact the relationships in your life.
Why You Shouldn’t Parent Your Partner In the intricate dance of relationships, it’s not uncommon for dynamics to take on unexpected roles. One potentially detrimental pattern that can emerge is the inclination to parent your partner. While the intention behind such behavior might be rooted in care and concern, the […]
Disagreements are bound to happen no matter what type of relationship you have, when you meet, or how perfect you are for one another. You could be two peas in a pod, the peanut butter to their jelly, or one another’s perfect match.
How to Manage Anxiety During Holiday Family Gatherings Holiday family gatherings are supposed to be joyful, full of warmth, tradition, and togetherness. But for many people, they also come with stress, emotional triggers, and anxiety that can start building weeks in advance. If complicated family dynamics, overstimulation, or the pressure […]
Anxiety in Teens While we often associate anxiety with adults, kids and teens can struggle with it just as much. Think about everything today’s teenagers have to deal with on a daily basis. They’re figuring out who they are and who they want to be. They’re navigating relationships, trying to […]
Do you ever feel like you don’t understand your teenager? First of all, join the club with just about every other parent! We’ve stereotyped the discord between parent and teen relationships for years. However, the reality is that you might not understand your teenager simply because their brain is working […]
Have you experienced extreme amounts of stress? Do you worry too much about things you probably shouldn’t? Is this stress or worry keeping you from doing things you used to love? Whether you’ve recently experienced these feelings or if they’ve been around for a while, you don’t have to “just […]
What is perfectionism? There are varying opinions about perfectionism. Some see it as a good thing. After all, what’s wrong with having high expectations and doing your best? Except that really isn’t perfectionism. It’s not about doing your best; it’s about literally being perfect. Of course, that’s not possible for […]
How to Rebuild Trust in a Christian Marriage A healthy marriage requires trust—that’s true of any relationship. But, when you’ve chosen, as a couple, to place God at the center of your marriage, somehow, trust holds more weight. You’ve committed to yourself, your partner, and life in Christ, and when […]
The 4 Warning Signs of a Toxic Christian Relationship There’s a misconception that when two Christians are in a relationship, everything within that relationship will be “perfect.” While you might strive to have a relationship centered around God, we’re all still flawed human beings. We all get it wrong sometimes, […]
How Do You Know What You Really Want in a Relationship? If someone were to ask you what you really want from a relationship, you might be quick to give a surface response. Most people will say things like love, commitment, and trust. While those are all great qualities to […]
How to Form Realistic Expectations for Your Relationship Everyone wants a fairytale or Hallmark-style romance. But most of us know those classic tales aren’t realistic. Even the happiest couples in the world argue at times. No one is perfect. Still, it’s very easy to form unrealistic expectations for your relationship. You […]
Family anger issues are more common than most people think People get angry for different reasons. Our triggers might be deeply rooted in our past or even in actions of our family. If most people in our family tend to struggle with anger, we might want to consider different […]
Do you ever feel like a piece of you is missing? Like no matter how many self-help books you read, or how many times you try to ‘focus on yourself’, there is still a gap you can’t seem to fill? Turns out, the solution may not be found by looking […]